But some people actually did think the person who posted was the a**hole:
“You’re the a**hole for not speaking up earlier. If you hadn’t been such a b*tch earlier and spoken up, you could have had all of this resolved a decade ago.”
“It is a compromise. It’s Hawaii, not the Florida parks. Why not go to the resort and explore the island during the day? No need to stay in the resort all day.
Why not tell your wife outright that you’re tired of Disney-centered vacations? Why not plan a vacation yourself? Why not plan a vacation with your wife? Why does she have to plan it?
You’re the a**hole for leaving all the work to her, not communicating properly, and not recognizing that she did compromise to the best of her ability with your lack of communication.”
“I agree. 95% of the replies are, ‘Disney adults are weird. Not the a**hole.’ When OP should’ve told his wife long ago that he isn’t into Disney World like she is.
I’m guessing they go, take a bunch of pictures where he’s smiling like they’re having a good time, and she takes that positive feedback to book another trip next year.
You’re the a**hole, not for wanting to do something else, but for not communicating with your wife.”