Hi Scott,
I’ve had a recent shock after checking my 16-year-old’s bank statement. He’s been gambling over the last 6 months and had about 9 different betting accounts! I assumed he had stolen his Dad’s ID to open them, but when I logged in to close them down, all he had used was our name and date of birth, then his email and phone number – easy as. The reason he had so many accounts was that each new sign-up gets you free bets.
A week later at the bank, I discovered my 18-year-old son had also been gambling. All the money from his birthday two months earlier – over a thousand dollars – was gone. I am so disappointed and upset. I have prided myself on always having the difficult conversations with them about sex and drugs, and we have discussed gambling lots over the years.
Mary
Mary,
This made my blood BOIL.
Do you know what makes this just so utterly outrageous?
The fact that it’s so completely normal!
It ain’t just your boys, Mary:
One in three kids aged 12–17 are already gambling, according to the Office of Responsible Gambling’s 2020 Youth Study.
One in three!
Yet it makes perfect sense when you think about it.
After all, we are a nation of gambling addicts.
Each year we rack up the largest losses in the world, per head.
That doesn’t happen by chance.
It requires a society that willingly allows its young people to be groomed by gambling companies.
That’s the truth, and it’s disgusting.
“Teenage brains are … more sensitive to rewards than potential risks. This helps explain why young people, aged 18 to 29, have the highest rates of gambling problems”, says Professor Sally Gainsbury from Sydney University.
Too many young men kill themselves because of their gambling problems.
Anthony Albanese knows this, but he refuses to stand up for them.
Nor do our sporting codes.
In fact, they take their money.
Yet even though our politicians are weak as piss, the gambling lobby is here to help us Mary.
No, really.
The Australasian Gaming Council (AGC) is pushing for schools to introduce financial literacy programs that educate students about responsible gambling. In fact, they’ve even produced a guide book for teachers.
Hang on, why would a gambling lobby want this?
Maybe because they see it as a recruitment drive.
“One of the risks of these education programs is that it may introduce gambling as a ‘risky’ activity to students who may not have otherwise given it much consideration”, argues Professor Matthew Rockloff, the head of the Experimental Gambling Lab at Curtin Uni.
In other words, telling young, rebellious, risk-taking boys about a way to take risks could … influence them to take those risks. (Like they see their dads do each weekend. It’s almost like a rite of passage, right?)
Now, as you may know, I am obsessed with getting financial education in schools.
Yet if I was going to include a section on gambling in my financial school program it’d look a little different to the gambling lobby’s.
Here’s how I’d do it:
I’d explain that my program is not funded by gambling companies, so I won’t be using the weasel words “responsible gambling”. (Seriously, can you imagine if kids were taught at school about “responsible smoking”?)
Instead, I’d use the simple reframe that I use on my own kids: “Gambling is for losers.”
Every time my kids are hit with a gambling message, whether it be watching the footy, on the radio, or a YouTube video, I immediately reverse the brainwashing by saying aloud: “Gambling is for losers”.
Finally, I’d tell them this truth:
The rich men running these betting companies spend millions of dollars each year manipulating you.
They flood social media feeds, they hijack your favorite sport, they hire actors, comedians, influencers and celebrities, all for one single aim:
To get you to bet.
Why?
Because the more you gamble … the more you lose … and the more money they make.
They’re busy building themselves a bigger mansion. And it’s paid for by your losses.
So, the most rebellious thing a teenage kid could do is to not bet.
To send a message to these suits to bugger off.
To tell them you know their game is up:
“Gambling is for losers”.
Look, adults betting is their business, but when the gambling industry sets its sights on our kids, all bets are off.
Of course the gambling industry will argue they’re not targeting kids.
So why are they on TikTok?
And who did they have in mind when they created bets like, how many Taylor Swift’s new album will be #1 for, who will win Dancing with the Stars, or whether Timothee Chalamet and Kylie Jenner will get engaged (I have no idea who they are, but I hope they find love).
My view?
If any company is caught letting a minor bet, they should be immediately shut down.
Mary, I’m sorry this has happened to your family.
It’s time we bet on our kids.